Maitry’s Blog

This question of How to be Happy remains unanswered to me for multiple reasons –

1) You try to be happy in small things you see around but still miss the thing you don’t/can’t have

2) You try to be happy on the weekends when you work your ass off in the weekdays but still people don’t trust you or can see you happy

3) You think you are at the most peaceful state of mind sometimes but still can’t focus on a single thing

4) Most of the times people are stuck in past while blabbering about moving on to others

Can we ever really be happy ? Yes but do we believe in the ways listed down by the society to move ahead? I don’t think so

I believe every person has their own sense and way of tackling things. Few things that make me happy may not make others happy in the same way, it can be petty to them. But we can atleast try to be in whatever ways we feel so because only when you are there for yourself and love and be content with what you have then can you achieve things in life which you dream of.

These dreams seem closer when you see yourself first and content and independent and everything. Self awareness, self focus, self evaluation are most important in times today when everybody is in a race to win and make others fall.

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You were my first love,

You were my first kiss,

You were my first hug,

You were my first everything

But

Why couldn’t I be the last too

Why couldn’t we survive our relationship

Why couldn’t we heal the bad parts

Why.. Why couldn’t we fall in love that we shared for years

Or was it just nothing for you but everything to me.

A life of a human being is similar to that of stocks in a stock market. A stock moves up or down according to a news (good/bad) about the company disrupts the market.

In the same way, in our life we come across many such instances (bad as well as good) and we are not able to handle these circumstances with proper support and strength in our minds leading to a whole lot of stress leading to consequential health issues.

But can we not consume bad news the same way as we do good? Yes we can. The first step towards it is reducing the amount of stress we take even for the smallest of things of our lives like for example scoring lower grades, not being the favourite friend or daughter or son, not being able to responsibly handle things etc.

These are some of the ways that has helped me in times of excess stress and if in certain situations you don’t have people around to talk to.

Way 1 – Exercise. HIIT Workouts. Meditate. Walk.

Way 2 – Get your artistic skills out. Learn from the most powerful resource that you have in your hand – your phones. Google all the type of new arts that is trending and try to replicate or make of your own. (Might help you to turn it into a business 😎)

Way 3 – Dance/Zumba. This has been the most soothing as well as fast mood upliftment.

Way 4 – Sleep if you are sleep deprived and otherwise too. It will indefinitely help you get rid of the stress.

Way 5 – Music. Music & dance go hand in hand. Nothing better than listening to a good tune music on your smartphones. Try listening to the ones like caravan or radio where you could hear people doing what in their lives, some funny stories as well.

Way 6 – Last but the important one, DO NOT GET DEMOTIVATED. Don’t think low of yourself and give a benefit of doubt to what you have achieved so far in life. It’s probably not enough that others might think but you know the amount of dedication & effort you have put through for the stage you are at.

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Don’t we all agree on giving self care and still end up doing things more for people than ourselves? But if we do things just for ourselves does it mean we are being selfish? Is being selfish necessary and important? But if this counts in “selfishness” or “greedy” then how does one get up for themselves?

I think the most easiest way is for us to realize that in the end all that matters is if the decisions you make yourself happy.

The world we live in have many societal prenorms set that we tend to follow but not always are we content with preaching them.

And that’s why being influenced by society and doing things people propose to like should not be a thing you do that you yourself don’t like.

We must do things that we like and always respect our emotions and life because we are given a chance to do something of our life and we should not do so pleasing others but pleasing ourselves.

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Everyday I go cycling to the beach and hault for a moment to grasp what nature offers. Believe me when I tell you, some alone time with yourself and nature is not only just mesmerising and beautiful to your sight but also your soul. It makes you take back fond memories and glaze at moments like a baby’s photoshoot or a cute couple in love. Photography or filming something unique and grateful to your soul is such a bliss.

These waves always remind me of something which goes like this –

Everytime you over think a thought, a person more far it will seem to you.

Everytime you make an effort on yourself, everything and everyone else falls for you.

Like the waves our lives are also a roller-coaster ride. But with every heavy tide of sadness there’s also a tide of pure happy wave that you have longed for in a stipulated time

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You fall in and out of love

You fall in and out of life

You fall in and out of people

You fall in and out of depression

You fall in and out of happiness

You fall in and out of sadness

In all of these situations, what matters is what you experienced. Though falling out of love made you happy or staying alone with no social distress, your experiences is what let’s you hold the mere fact of life that you must appreciate yourself even in the worst of situations or the best.

We met in school and were in love like fools

Our love made us happy because it wasn’t so crappy

Our love made us fierce because it wasn’t scarce

Our love made us bond and it began to become strong

Our love was aesthetic and it never made us feel like lunatics

Our love made us crossed boundaries but were we there enough to really stay at those gate of heavenly?

How deep was our love?

How deep it should have been that we stayed together even for the dreams that couldn’t have been.

1) Give yourself the importance you give to others

2) You are capable of doing inquisite things in life

3) You get attached and detached to people or things but life goes on

4) Finding your passion and working for it

5) Looking out for possibilities that can lead you to your goals

6) Spending enough time with the people who actually love and care for you

7) Fear nobody of what you speak, do or create (Freedom of expression)

8) Learn new skills that give you happiness for example cooking, painting, calligraphy etc

9) Know that nobody will be there for you except your family

10) Maintain your inner self true and the world will be yours to conquer

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So well I don’t know what should be the title of this story y’all can help me after reading it..

Change is inevitable. Change is necessary. Do you really think if you never changed or you were what you were in childhood or adolescent age, you would reach where you are today? It’s a matter of things that happen in life that change you in a good as well as bad way. It depends on how you take the situation and go about it

Let me share a few things that changed my life – 1) When I was of about age 5, I had a very close person to me – my cousin my closest friend and my teacher in every part of life. He departed his life with us because of cancer and I was totally heart broken because I never knew who to talk to when he wasn’t there. I didn’t know what I was doing was wrong or right until his advices were there. But then life goes on

2) I made a few best friends in life. Each of them left me too some because of wrong reasons some just because they had no time or they changed with time

3) My parents got ill and I still had nobody sometime to share what I felt like.

You might think I had kind of a lonely life. Yes I did. I had not many friends. I always craved for when people got so much of love respect and support from their loved ones. So I could have taken this all in a negative form and still keep complaining about everything but time doesn’t stop right? It goes on. Whether you are happy or sad. So why be sad and lead your life when you can be happy with little things around you and spread positivity wherever you go.

When sadness or lonely leads to depression, I bet you it’s the most difficult stage of your life but you can overcome it only by your own self. Nobody and literally nobody can take away your thunder. It’s very important to be truly ”happy” not just for social media but for your inner soul. It deserves happiness. You deserve happiness. Karma works its way and it will surely find you too.

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